DEAR ABBY: I just learned my hubby of 18 years happens to be likely to “hook-up” sites. He states he had been simply studying the images, but I don’t believe him. We have caught him cheating twice in the past, so it is difficult to trust him.
My issue is, he understands i can not leave him because i’ve no working task, no abilities, no cash — absolutely nothing. We went right from my moms and dads’ home to managing him after our wedding. We now have six children and another along the way. He’ll continue to visit these sites I am stuck because he knows. just What must I do? — SOON-TO-BE MOM OF SEVEN
DEAR SOON-TO-BE MOM OF SEVEN: the thing that is first must do is visit your physician and get examined for STDs. If you’re well, thank your greater energy. If you’ren’t, get therapy, get well and speak with legal counsel. Your position might never be as hopeless as you imagine.
Maybe you have any loved ones or buddies you can easily stick with whenever you leave, improve your life and turn self-supporting? It would likely need task training and time, but please contemplate it.
We doubt your spouse may have enough time for philandering in addition to his job if he has six kids to take care of by himself. We also question that few, if any, ladies he could be setting up with would welcome becoming the mother that is instant of. And something more thing, to any extent further, please usage birth prevention.
DEAR ABBY: i’ve been divorced for 30 years. During this time, my ex-wife has hardly ever talked in my experience, plus in the past 10 years said not one term for me. Continue reading